Heineken wrote:As usual you miss the whole point. This isn't about who kills whom first, it's about living life honorably---and dying honorably---instead of as a worm. There is no honor in withholding milk from starving infants.
Ahh, yes – honor. Honor is personal, like religion. The same act, viewed from one perspective, can be supremely honorable – or, from a different viewpoint, can be seen as utterly wrong. We see examples of this in the Middle East.
You will find, I think, that honor is merely a societal control mechanism. Notice that it lets a group of others frame an issue and grade performance, thus motivating an individual to act counter to his best interests. It has no constant definition. It changes worse than Dante’s ever-moving standard in the entryway of Hell.
So honor, as defined by others or by society, is irrelevant. Honor, from the standpoint of a personal code of behavior, is significant only from the view of providing a framework – or, if you prefer, a weltanschauung – for the individual. Each person’s code decides for them whether life was honorably led.
You say there is no honor in withholding milk from starving infants. Perhaps. But there is no gain in providing it; and, too, from my perspective, there is no honor in helping them. In fact, I would regard myself as dishonored if I allowed them to weaken my resolve.
Heineken wrote:Trying to reason with you is like trying to reason with a serial killer. It's hopeless. You don't begin to understand concepts like "love," "compassion," and "mercy," probably having experienced little love yourself. Thus, your Weltanschauung is mired in a sort of game-world of violence and selfishness. Blast away, Jack!
I can understand why you say that. The problem is that we place different weights on the various items mentioned. I place no value on mercy or compassion. I suppose you place more weight on them. If someone is merciful or compassionate, I note it, but do not care. Love and loyalty are nearly equivalent; I can see it for an individual or a small group. I doubt it exists in any greater sense.
Reality defines my world. I consider what people have done in the past and what they do today. I consider what’s been written of, and what I’ve seen. If you think me cold, then I do believe you’ve lead a protected life; for there are people out there that make me look like Mother Theresa by comparison.
Heineken wrote:It must be dreadfully lonely in there.
Again, you advance from a false assumption. I lead a rich, full, abundant life – and, I’m not troubled by the cries of the unfortunate. I sense that you are. So perhaps it is you, not I, that is lonely out in the cold. Come, warm yourself by the fire; drink deeply, and eat well. Put the matters that distress you aside, and live life as it was meant to be lived. From your earlier posting, I am inclined to say that you, of all people, should treasure the remaining years. A bounteous existence awaits you, if you will only grasp it.