Kingcoal wrote:However, I'd imagine that most older sex tourists are not in that class. I have a high degree of empathy and I just can't help but imagine the gulping feeling that these young, desparate people must feel when they engage in sex for money, literally, with these "toursists."
Yes, in this case the older women are engaging these young men because it makes them feel younger and because they have the upper hand (money).
I agree with pretty much everything you said, Kingcoal. A lot of older women and men are in good physical shape, and it's much easier to age gracefully these days with youthful haircuts and hair dye, great makeup and stylish clothes. That said, I still think it's much more common for older men and women to seek younger partners, or at least to be more attracted to younger people. This doesn't always have a desirable outcome, but I understand the emotions behind it.