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My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil.
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WildRose
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 9:55 pm    Post subject: Re: My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil. Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

Wednesday wrote:


I left the US early in 2002, just months after 9/11. I've been back to visit family since then, but this is my first time working in the US in years.


Ah, I see. I must have been remembering some of your posts from a time when you were back visiting in the States.

Well, I wish you all the best with your plans. Do drop in and let us know how things are going, if you have time, that is!

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 9:05 pm    Post subject: Re: My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil. Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

look at the bright side things could be worse you could owe 17,000 on a single wide trailer on a lot in a trailer park that you paid $24,600 for 11 years ago. Have 2 kids and a wife and work in a Textile mill on its last legs. All along with over $18,000 in credit card debt. Just makes me tingly all over thinking about it.
Things could always be worse.
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PostPosted: Thu May 01, 2008 7:09 pm    Post subject: Re: My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil. Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

I have never carried much debt even before I was aware of PO. I was always quite aware that if I screwed up, there would be no bail out for me. So I've played it safe, all my life.

No kids, no debt, I just never felt like I could afford to screw up such important issues.

Work is too far away, I am interviewing tomorrow for a similar job much closer to home. I have decided to keep the van and avoid a car payment. I will be looking for a small motorcycle and studying to get a license for it.

Wish me luck tomorrow, I'm trying to get more local.
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PostPosted: Thu May 01, 2008 7:34 pm    Post subject: Re: My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil. Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

Good choices I'm thinking Wed.

The van is an asset, something different with a loan is just a liability.

Good luck - what we think about we become said someone.
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PostPosted: Thu May 01, 2008 8:25 pm    Post subject: Re: My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil. Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

my $0.02...career wise...go for radiology tech. It pays pretty well. There's big time shortages of radiology techs so jobs are plentiful. If you get bored you can go back and do something more specialized such as a nuclear medicine tech, MRI tech, ultrasound tech, etc. Stay away from EMT. EMT's have a really tough job and don't get paid squat. I have friends that are EMT's and I am always appalled by how little those guys get paid. Take an EMT class later if you want for the skills. You can do it in the evenings once you have a job. Physician Assistant is an awesome job if you want to put in the time. PA's do most everything an MD does and they do it with 4 years of school instead of 12.

Cars....I'm a huge fan of the early 90's Saturns. I've got a 93 SC. I paid $1500 for it. It gets 33 mpg. Very reliable. Goes great in the snow(not that you're getting much snow in Texas.) Trade that gas guzzler van in and get a Saturn.
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PostPosted: Thu May 01, 2008 11:08 pm    Post subject: Re: My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil. Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

Dig a man pit. Camoflage it, then place beer and erotica in the middle and wait. Purdy soon, you'll have yourself a brand new man!

Seriously though...break ups are rough, but isn't it great to be free again?

Just out of curiosity, why isn't Canada an option?
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PostPosted: Fri May 02, 2008 4:14 am    Post subject: Re: My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil. Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

Starting Over is not such a bad thing. I've done it several times. Makes it easier to do the housework when the place is empty.

I start over to some degree later this year, dramatically changing my lifestyle. I'm trapped in a job I don't really care for, but the people are decent, even excellent, and the money is outrageous (wheelbarrel needed for the paystub.) I have a brain and intend to use the thing. Nothing wrong with using the brain. These days a good brain is hard to find. You should do well.

About a year ago a guy I worked with drove up a tree, messed up hs leg, was out of work for several months. It made a fine opportunity to pass out some aging food stocks, what with his 7 kids and all. But it left me short of inventory. I have rebuilt that inventory in a different manner that I am pleased with. Change is not necessarily a set back, think of it as an opportunity to be embraced.

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PostPosted: Sat May 03, 2008 8:01 am    Post subject: Re: My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil. Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

Wednesday wrote:
I have never carried much debt even before .


In hindsight seems like a good idea. You have to keep a sense of humor about things or it will drive ya crazy. Most of my debt was acquired in going back and forwards to the Philipines. I was going to run up about 100,000 on credit cards and disappear there but my wife decided she wanted to come here to live. She was there for 2 years after we were married. Made it kind of tough so i went a little loco.

Good luck on the Job.
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PostPosted: Fri May 16, 2008 9:40 pm    Post subject: Re: My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil. Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

I did get the transfer and its been going pretty well. The money isnt really what I am used to, but I'm thinking a lot of people are seeing that in service industries.

I have an appt with admissions office. I definitely want some imaging skills like radiology and MRI, ultrasound. I'm also planning to get a Phlebotomy cert. I want to be able to start IVs and transfusions.

Things are moving along, slowly.

Thank you everyone for your interest and support.
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PostPosted: Fri May 16, 2008 10:19 pm    Post subject: Re: My marriage is over. Divorce on the brink of Peak Oil. Add User to Ignore List Reply with quote

smallpoxgirl wrote:
Physician Assistant is an awesome job if you want to put in the time. PA's do most everything an MD does and they do it with 4 years of school instead of 12.


What's the differential in pay between an MD and a PA?

What's the ceiling on PA pay?

Can PAs prescribe medicine?

What's a PA going to make straight out of school?

If PA only takes four years, why do people bother going the RN route?
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